K, You did well, you giving H a smile is NO BIG DEAL...actually it showed that you are the better person! You are going to be ok...I hope I will do as well if/when my day in court comes! Right now H is treating me like I am disposible!! Called 2 hours b/f he was supposed to pick up the girls to tell me he couldn't! I hate relying on someone and have them not follow through! My D4 was upset she was not going to see her dad. H did stop by to pick up new ins cards...I am still attracted to him and when I see him I really miss him...how long does that take to get over?? I did find out OW is 23 yrs old...YUCK...he is almost 41!! supposedly she has kids...not sure....he hasn't picked up D for preschool all week like he is supposed to! When I ask him about it all he says is "sorry". not a real sorry but a too bad for you...deal with it! H got new job and has 8 wks severance pay from former job...I think he should give me some since he keeps shorting me $$ each week...anyone have any ideas how to do this w/o taking legal action??
