It is fascinating to watch the interactions on this board. You can tell a lot about people, which I guess is the point.
Corri I find it interesting that you seem to be so drawn to defend/support the men on this board that certainly don't seem like they need defending. They seem pretty certain of their statements/assumptions (Cobra and Nop come to mind) but you almost gush over them. I just find it interesting. Just an observation on my part and not sure if I have a point. Just something to think about I guess.
Fearless and Cobra both have their own points of view as they should, but they present them in very different ways. I don't think you should dismiss "style" when it comes to communication. No one likes a "know it all" especially the spouse that has to live with you 24/7. Very obnoxious, and many people on this board act like they have all the answers. If that was the case, why are you all here? I enjoy reading everyone's stories and opinions like everyone else but criminy, chill out a little. Life is too short to take it so seriously. Cobra, I think you are a very interesting man. But in my opinion, you are your own worst enemy. Searching for THE ANSWER in human behavior/psychology is going to be fruitless. And the more you dig in your heels, the more difficult of a time you are going to have in your M. Just my two cents of course.
