Please don't think that your Husband is out having a great time and living his life to the fullest. It isn't like that at all.
Of course you are worried about him, it is only natural, we all worry when we see the person that we love spinning out of control like a top.
But at the same time, they have to find themselves and figure out what it is that they really want. They need time and space to get it all together again.
Allowing him to miss you is huge. I know the urge to pick up the phone or send a text message. Each time I thought about it I would tell myself to get through another hour, and slowly, slowly the urges became less and less.
Try to remember that detaching and distancing yourself are two different things. When you are in contact with him keep things light and upbeat. On the phone keep a smile on your face, even when he is acting like a schmuck.
Allow him to miss you CM, allow him to see that he has made the biggest mistake of his life but the trick is not to actually tell him this.
Keep your eyes focused on HIM and let HIM give you the wisdom you need to continue this arduous journey.
(((((Faith)))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
