I read some of your thread. One of your earlier posts in this thread really hit home with me. You inspire me. You wrote in one of my posts a quote someone gave to you, it was: "YOU are something, YOU mean something, YOU have no equal". Thanks. I hope I can be with my H where you are today someday, sooner than later. Where he is at a place where he can let totally loose of that gf and tell her he does not want to do that to me anymore. Do you think that is possible?
I used to think our love was enough, too and time would also get us through. Not so. I found out the hard way. I know now he was not getting from me what he needed and he went looking for it somewhere else.
This is all new to me, but reading your thread and other's threads has really helped and inspired me to try to be the person i used to be, the one he fell in love with. Not a shell of who I used to be and to not give up. It gives me hope.
I know it's different for everyone, but how long did it take you to feel like he was really "with you" again? And I am trying to do some different and new things to make my H feel special again and spice things up a bit... I am doing the DBusting and some things I know he likes but what are some things you do that really makes your H feel special, or loved?
