This is an example of an erroneous assumption. There's no particular reason to assume that hairdog, choc, honeypot, GEL, NJ, cemar, etc. (including me) are staying out of the discussion to "try to be safe."
Yeah, some of us are just feeling too stupid to follow the bouncing ball. Must be lack of sex fog brain coming on.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
