I have not talked with Fearless and DERaven as I have with Cobra. What I see of Fearless, thus far, is she will say what is on her mind, and she does it in a very frank way. She leaves nothing on the table, so to speak. She is unafraid of confronting herself, as are most people who have been thru the horrors of D. However, in her frankness, she assumes that others are at the point of 'frankness' as well.
Fearless engaged this conversation. Even though Cobra first responded, she engaged. The impetus is on her.
Seek FIRST to understand, BB. THEN to be understood. It is at the heart of all advice that NOP gives, if that helps.
