Quote: --------------------------------------------------------- My H worked in the bush for weeks at a time and his ex cheated on him numerous times. He stayed for years for the kids, even after she had kicked him out a couple of times and moved someone else in days later, they all turned out to be his friends. The last time, she moved someone like two days or two weeks later. There is alot more to it than that but that is the straw that broke the camels back. ---------------------------------------------------------
It appears that your husband is also a big time conflict avoider.
Do you have any idea about what has him withdrawn from the relationship?
Is he depressed?
You both can't be conflict avoiders and expect to change the dynamics of your relationship. So the first thing you have to resign yourself to, is to learn how to handle conflict and engage your husband without anger and resentment. At least one of you has to go first, and since you are here, that means you :-)
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
