and BOTH of you need to understand Cobra... before you rush to... conclusions.
Because... I wasn't talking to Cobra.
The thing about Cobra... is... he 'gets' me. We tend to leave each other alone now. When he first came here, I was all 'in his face,' and we had our 'tete a tete's' make no mistake.
But. Cobra sees right through me, all my flaws and insecurities... he also sees my strongs points, etc. I have no problem with that. He accepts me, and I accept him.
Don't know that we could EVER be married... but. Respect is there. Kwis?
I also respect CeMar. I know that will blow most of you over, but I do. We go back a long ways, and CeMar did a TON to help me in understanding my H. He has a very gentle, very understanding side to him, and I found his ingsights to be invaluable, even though he struggles with his own personal situation. I do not judge CeMar. I adore him. Don't know that I could live with him, but I do adore him.
Not that I am putting Cobra and CeMar in the same category.
But. I will, first and foremost, always give credit where credit is due. And Cobra has come A LONG WAY. Seek first to understand, then to be understood, is what I see in Cobra. And most people, for that matter.
