Yes!! I agree, I AM the common demoninator! I do get it, that is why I want help!! I dont want to be this way... I think it is being rejected. I dont understand why. We never ever ever ever ML if I initiate... EVER!
I thought they were alot different...
My H worked in the bush for weeks at a time and his ex cheated on him numerous times. He stayed for years for the kids, even after she had kicked him out a couple of times and moved someone else in days later, they all turned out to be his friends. The last time, she moved someone like two days or two weeks later. There is alot more to it than that but that is the straw that broke the camels back.
I am definatley not grabby... or demanding... and I dont like conflict!! I am definately needy! I told my H that I need touch!! I dont know why I am this way!! But I do want to know how to be different, I dont want to drive him away...
He has not stated a reason... but I read "The Five Love Languages" which I thought was an awesome book, he would not read it. I typed about 20 pages from it to explain my needs and ask him about his... he wouldnt read that either.
I am angry with him every time he "rejects" me. I am angry when I feel lonely, which is about every few weeks... I try to act normal and it lasts for awhile. We will go days without much interaction at all. I have told him that its not just sex that I want. I want him to walk by and hug me or put his arm around me at night. I told him to kiss me passionately once in a while. I just want to connect here and there! I hate bringing it up because i dont want to nag or whine!!
I appreciate everyone that has responded. I want to be normal!!!
