Cobra, I have to say as a man who sees the mistakes he made in his marriage and as the father of a D8 I don't understand your views at all on relationships or child rearing.
You don't have to understand it. You simply must respect it first, as you do Fearless... then come at it.
Cobra is not attacking. He is discussing his view point. Believe me, you KNOW when he is attacking.
Most of what Cobra does is foreign to most of us. But he is married to a woman who has a different upbringing and cultural differences than many of us do. Compound that with his wife's OCD problems, hypocondriac tendicies, etc., you might find common ground.
Cobra is also in a loveless marriage. To his credit, to develop 'LOVE,' one must develop 'respect.' I personally may not agree with some of his 'methods,' but I am not Cobra, and I do not live his life. He has seen improvement, so....
He is working toward 'respect,' at least. If you go back and read his story from the beginning, you will see a man full of loathing, self-hate, hate for his wife and a boat load of anger and resentment. He has made tremendous strides.
So. I understand your 'protection' of Fearless as she is your SO. But. I see Fearless as fearless... she can stand on her own two feet... and BOTH of you need to understand Cobra... before you rush to... conclusions.
