Maybe amd. You could be right. I mean this is a nice career job I would be getting. And at one point, he just suggested that I go hostess somewhere for a while. Now, not that this is a bad job, and in fact I probably would enjoy it. But I am well-educated and have a ton of work experience, and am frankly overqualified to work in a restaurant. But it would be a temporary job, wouldn't it? Maybe he didn't want me to settle myself down. I don't know. But honestly I don't care. What did he expect? I have to look out for myself because no one else will.

Thank you for all the well-wishes. I am smiling tonight; we have a little angel in our family. My brother and SIL are wonderful people and no one deserves this more than they do.


Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.