I share your frustration. With me, I feel that my W is not being openly honest yet. Maybe she's not ready, maybe she has all this guilt built up inside about the affair and doesn't want to be exposed as the spouse that did wrong to her husband? But she has not opened up about it, only about what's wrong with ME. So I am working on me, not talking about her faults right now, and patiently waiting - waiting to see if I can continue on with her and her faults. So all we can really do is try until we cannot try any longer. Just know that you have friends here! And we share this uncommon bond in what we are all going through.
Last edited by sol1696; 03/06/0708:41 PM.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
