I couldn't help but comment on this line. COG has it down pat - it could be A LOT worse.
On another note, I remember a long, long time ago (we won't get into years) and it was during my first marriage (H is now deceased - poor soul) we were a group of people and he (and other guys) were bragging, more than anything, about how good sex was with "other" people in the past etc. It was kind of embarassing (as I was quite young) and I felt like I was put on the spot. But, without hesitation, and you could hear a pin drop at that point - because I was somewhat of a prude, I said "the best lover I ever had was me". Needless to say the crowd burst into laughter and my H's face went as red as a firetruck. That was the last time he talked sex in public too.
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Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)