Quote: ------------------------------------------------- What am I doing wrong???? How could this happen to me twice?? I feel betrayed.. he knew what I went thru the first time and he just seemed to "get it". We talked for hours and hours!! Can you say "false advertisement"? I am becoming more and more angry!! -------------------------------------------------
Since the situations between your two marriages are similar, that leaves you as the common denominator.
What are other similarities between the two relationships. Did you marry another man that shares common traits with your ex?
What destroyed your husband's first marriage?
Would you consider yourself grabby/needy/demanding or desperate?
Would your husband consider you grabby/needy/demanding or desperate?
Has your husband stated a reason for his unwillingness to read SSM?
How often are you angry with your husband?
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
