Huband just moved in with OW

[Danu]

Yes, you're right, I wouldn't want him reading my posts if I decide to really vent! The poor guy just needs to find a support system like I did. He isn't close to his family, and most of his friends tell him "she's not worth it, move on." One of them even told him to "Grow up" because he's so sad. I feel bad for him. I'm SO glad I'm a woman so my friends don't look down on me for being weepy. Guys have it pretty rough.

While I do not like the OW, I don't hate her. I believe she is just as sick as my H. Viewing them both as mentally ill right now helps to keep the anger down. Besides, if she came on to my H, all he had to do is walk away. I don't blame her for this entirely. If she wasn't willing, he could just as easily found someone else.

Danu