Theoden - Thanks for the words of wisdom. I guess that I've always likened this whole situation to a death (the death of our marriage as we know them) and it makes sense that being in this limbo land gets us stuck in the stages of grief. We just keep cycling through.I know that when I get stuck in the "anger" phase that is when I lash out and lose control.
HB - My H has been saying pretty much the same thing.. to hang in there.. that he's working through this. I guess it's a positive in that they're not telling us to get lost! Sometimes I feel like he's playing me for a fool as well.. I guess that's because we are opening ourselves up to someone who has not been honest with us. No matter what, how can we ever regret that we are being honest, open, and loving to the men that we committed our lives to??
