That is a personal matter but when I spoke to my pastor about setting boundaries like that, he said to let H see the kids when he wants because you do not want to come across as the one H or the kids will blame if they are unable to see each other when they want.
I would monitor your accounts if you can. For example, with the click of my computer mouse, I can transfer money just like that.
Just be careful.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
