"A place where you can vent about H and the whore. (sorry, I just say whore not OW)"

My daughter does not refer to OW as a woman at all. She refers to her much worse than that and says she IS NOT a woman!!

Yes, this should be your safe haven.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19