I think we all get those same feelings, that our spouses are just hanging long enough because it's convenient for them and they are not really set on working on the marriage or of their own feelings. It's the waiting part that sucks, and it tests us.
But I am seeing that I too need to use this time wisely and work on my own issues, one of them being some major insecurity about my M, but looking at our sitches, it goes to reason. I do think however that 98% of our insecurities are created by us in our heads. We worry when we shouldn't. Try not to read into anything, it does no good. I only see what my W does for me and the family - her actions are all that really matter and count right now.
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
