OW is mad as hell at her H for talking to me at all. I told him how strange this is, we're just talking on the phone and she's upset. It's like he and I are having an affair, not them! Marcika says I'm a threat to her. Not only with my H, but now with her's too! My H isn't too thrilled about this either, although he wont come right out and say anything to me about it, but I can tell by the way he acts.

Yes, the thought has crossed my mind that it would be fun to waltz into a restaurant they were at with me on his arm! But it's just a fun naughty thought.

OW's H told me that he called her cell phone not too long ago and my H answered. They exchanged words, needless to say, and it ended with OW's H inviting my H over to his house to "settle this". My H didn't go. Guess he's not as big and bad as he thinks he is. Then OW's H got my H's cell phone number and called to tell him that he's fighting for his M. OW's H wound up behind my H on the highway one day and pulled up along side of him and gave him the evil eye, and H wouldn't look at him.

Guess he didn't know what he was getting himself into!

I'd like to know if anyone else has contact with the OP's spouse, and how that's going.

Danu


Everything happens for a reason, and through this journey I will learn many things about myself