Yes, and I believe that once that new feeling goes away, then when you do things to meet your spouses needs, that is true love. I believe that love is a decision. I am willing to do anything for my H. He knows that I am hurting, he doesnt want to talk about it, he wont read anything, he cares, he loves me, he will be the first to admit that he jsut burries his head in the sand hoping it will get better by itself...
I would be lying if i said that I didnt want him to change back to wanting me again, but i am to the point that i just want to change myself to the point that i can live with the way things are and be happy. I try, i really do but every few weeks, i feel this way again. I hate it!
