Yesterday was a non scheduled sex nite. We were watching tv til fairly late, and then H says he really wants to have sex. I remind him of the schedule and he is persistent. I really didn't know what to do so I went along with it.
I'm going to side with your H on this one. Why are you being so rigid with sticking to the schedule? Maybe I missed that part. I understand you are a planner but if your H isn't, you will need to compromise. Looks like that was the conclusion to the argument so that is good. Glad your therapy was helpful to you. You do sound sad though in many of your posts. I notice you keep writing that you are hopeful about the M but there seems to be not a lot of belief behind the statement. Maybe it's just too hard to read people's intentions on this board but that was the sense I was getting. Hang in there. Have some chocolates.
