Good for you for keeping your cool, even though you raised your voice briefly. So the choice is made. HI to NJ! What a difference. Should be very interesting, indeed. It does seem, however, that your XW seems to be starting to realise that she has missed time with your sons. Could this be the start of the wake up?
My D26 and her H still don't know where they will be going. Seems that now it's either FL, WA, or IL. Her H is still in cross-training in TX. I was in the military in my misspent youth (another time, another country), but I was never posted away from my home city, thank goodness.
Hope the rest of your week goes better.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim