I was able to have the utility bills put in my name or change the way our names are listed.
Instead of the bill saying john doe jane doe
it now reads jane doe or john doe
Fortunately, my H already told me which bills he is paying and if I haven't given the bills to him by a certain time, he asks for them.
I can always monitor payments by visiting the websites and/or setting it up where they send you an email saying payment has been received.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19