OK, I'm back for a super quickie First off, Betsey, thank you for your thoughtful post! I cannot do it justice at the moment but you certainly hit the nail on the head again and again. The short version is that I AM working on my resentment and scorekeeping as I know that is definitely the way to alleviate some of the issues. Also, as you mentioned WOA go far with h so I have kicked those up quite a few notches.
Things are much better. Some of it is that Charlotte isn't sick or teething in a particularly painful way and some of it is definitely what we've been doing at home...keeping up (religiously) with date night and as I mentioned above, giving out WOA. Even h has been great about that...the other day he even diagramed how complicated my days are (with the work/daycare/etc deal).
Also, Oldtimer...thank you so much for helping me to focus ...oops...dd is awake..I'll keep you in suspense!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
First off, Betsey, thank you for your thoughtful post! I cannot do it justice at the moment but you certainly hit the nail on the head again and again. The short version is that I AM working on my resentment and scorekeeping as I know that is definitely the way to alleviate some of the issues. Also, as you mentioned WOA go far with h so I have kicked those up quite a few notches.
