Muddle, finances are important and in the midst of W's romantic fantasies that touch of reality often seems lacking. I know when my W says "if you want to leave, then leave" it maddens me because it isn't that simple! There are so many things to take into account, it's not just something that one person should impulsively decide and lay on everybody else. The kids need more than just two people doing whatever they feel like because it feels right or good. That's childish nonsense. So I understand your frustration in all this. Just because she wants it to be so doesn't make it such! Because you recognize this, you are the bad guy. Tough place to be. BTW, your son is right, you are right and she is wrong (but I'm kind of biased)
