you are so patient with that woman. what i dont get is if you have made so many changes in the marriage and she wanted you back together again then why is she still so stubborn and selfish. i do not understand why you make so many excuses for her bad behavior and not hold her accountable for anything she says or does or doesnt do. i dont want to think of you as a ticking time bomb ready to snap because of the crap she keeps heaping onto you. i know you are a peacemaker and you desperately want things to be better and you are so much more ahead of the game but when will it be your turn to have a say so in things? when will you be able to be treated like a man?