I have been reading your advice and I am so impressed. It has helped me tremdously to know there are others going thru what I am. I am also having trouble focusing not to be to needy. I have been married 25 years and lived by my self and I make major business decisions every day. but when my husband has a OW that I know it has killed me. I can really relate to 2940. I also need to turn loose and just do business. Because my husband still wants to talk and be there for me. It like we are friends instead of being married. I have a hard time not bringing her up. I know that is wrong. I have also read How to break free from the affair. It gives you exactly what you should not do. We all have made the same mistakes it just hard to break old habits. I believe you guys are great support. I enjoy reading what you have to say. It is real hard in the day knowing he is calling her and texting her instead of me. So I have to control my urge to call him and ask to many questions. It is almost like obsession.
