Hi Sue. I'm sorry you've been having a rough couple of days.
Quote: When he dropped me off I so wanted to hug him, or lean over and kiss him or talk..but I did not.I just wish I knew if he was waiting for me to make the first move..or if he is just wanting to take it slowwww or if he really has no feelings or attraction for me...some small sign.
You know, I was thinking about NewBob's sitch when I read this line. Have you tried the "hit and run" approach? For example, before exiting the car, pat his leg before getting out? Something subtle? I assume you've thought about how to engage him through his "love languages?" Also, you said "he's a good listener," so what if you just came up with some "issues" that you needed help with? Just something rather simple and safe to engage him in conversation...
I understand you're gun-shy, but if what you're doing doesn't seem to be working, then maybe change it up a bit. Be a bit more daring...
Anyway, just throwing a few things out there... Take care of yourself.
