I know these are all things that I am working on..yet I am not sure what I see for myself..I like the simple life...I really don't want to change anything dramatic..I really don't have any single friends that I can seek out and see what the single groups do..my family is out as far as leaning on them...they just want to blame h for everything..so I keep building myself and LL, I will set up some scenerios of what might happen in the different settings..good idea..either way I want to be the survivor. Thanks Sue
