I hope that the day will come when you are no longer "Heartbroken", but "Happy Heart"! I have decided to take the advice given to me a long time ago and start loving myself (not to be conceited), but I never really thought of myself as a happy person. It's not a new concept to me, just a forgotten one.
I was thinking earlier today, that if I end up finding myself single again, I should not have to worry about being lonely. My W caught on to that back a few months when I was crying and begging and asking "why"? I was going to lose the person that I have known for 10 years, but not seeing my daughter was the final straw - I had to try to work on my M - and on me!!!
SO now I find myself that I am not the person I want to be, and I have become unattractive. But guess what? Now that I am slowly but surely working on a new me, people are noticing. The days I am full of bounce and confidence I get more attention, and I am easy and fun to talk to. I even caught the attention of a single female at work! Now, I know better than to go there, but it was an ego boost and that showed me that there is life out there after all. Now, if I am becoming a more attractive person to people I don't know, how is my W going to view me? Good stuff!
~Sol
~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Single Dad, and luvin it! ~ Happiness is a state of mind ~
