Ali,
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My H just invited me to come see him his last few days in Mexico he misses me and wants to take me to the beach ( my fave place, he hates the beach).
Well, my gut tells me you should drop everything and go, but I don't know. If you think it's going to break the bank, then there are alternatives. You could tell him that you miss him too, and you'll have a nice hot surprise waiting for him when he gets home. Just tell him you don't have the money, but you have the desire so he better be ready for romping when he gets home. That'll get him thinking. He'll probably take the first flight home! Not to mention, it might just create a little more intrigue. Maybe he's wondering why you sound so good, happy, fulfilled. It's intriguing, the waiting might even create more desire in you too.

This is something you ultimately need to decide. Pray about it, try to think logically, not emotionally, and if you decide not to go, work out an alternative plan to keep him engaged until you can get him home and work him over.

You can do this, you women are much better at this than we men are. You've got him moving towards you, just keep doing what your doing. Stay strong, don't let the ring or the tatoo affect you in the slightest. They're both material things that mean nothing. YOU are something, YOU mean something, YOU have no equal.

Go get um!

Love,

COG


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