I'm sorry that now is not the time to investigate spiritual options.
That's ok. I can't let going to a church or not going to a church interfere with my plan to investigate spriritual options. I can read, meditate, pray from home. It will be ok.
It does seem as if Nops list of questions is pretty basic if you are to decide what to do about the D. I hope your H gives answers you can work with.
Karen, so do I. I know better than to expect to hear all of what I want to hear, the way I want to hear it. I will be open to his way of giving and yet try to be wary of him taking me off track.
Try not to take your children's preferences too personally.
Sigh. I know. When the balance of 'power' shifts back so that things are more equal, it seems I'm better able to see their preferences for what they are, just a temporary preference. Even if it is a long-term preference, it doesn't mean they don't love me. I try to think of my R with my own parents. I was never as close to my Dad as I was to my Mom, but I still love my Dad just as much. I know I just need to let go a little. But they're my babies
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
