Oh you guys always lift my spirits and just help to make this road a little easier to follow.. Thanks, LL, I just usually need to hear it,h has always been the nice guy, always been patient, kind, and yes, has done many things for/with me that he probably did not want to do....I have reflected back and seen all the good things and times we have had, I hope that he can too..so he really wants to find himself, as he is saying, and I just am beginning to understand that he needs to.
Jethro, I do feel better, slept ok too..I am not so sure that I am really ahead of what h feels or needs to "find", but I have not experienced the feelings that he is, the "who am I"...and who really has the right to judge that they are wrong or strange or bad because they do have issues to work on...
Since my "light bulg" thing on Monday, and the short talk we had, I have felt 100% better about me, us...and h has called several times at work(about other things), but I hear a more relxed tone from him, as I am more upbeat.So how we take care of ourselves definatly rubs offs on others. I was at church tonight for a meeting, and h was there working and a few of us had a neat discussion afterwards..he was so calm and upbeat.The old h I once knew! night Sue
