Well, h just dropped me off..I got up the nerve to just say "how have things be going, you seem to be less tense" his response was "Yes, I am " Then I said "I see you have taken off your ring" He said "yes, a couple weeks ago" I had nothing to say to that and we were at home and I got out and said goodbye...now I am on the verge of tears...I so want to control myself, but I just don't see anything positive right now. I am going to try really hard to foocus on myself...it seems that i can't quite let go of this marriage and of h...and if I can and it works out, great but at least I will be prepared for it not working.Is that the wrong way to look at things, guess that is the "act as if" thing. Guess I'll go have a good cry and then shape up and work on some positive things for me. Sue
