you know what sue, I can totaly relate to checking for the ring, I did it all summer long till finally after many months of h's saying he wanted a d, I took the ring from him. you know that my h left, wanted a d, took off his ring, but is now home and does not want d.
soooooo what am I saying??? I don't think it all really matters much right now. you might ask h about the ring, you might not like the answer, but it really doesn't matter. what matters is that you put the focus on yourself, live for you!! enjoy your life! and let h figure out whatever it is he needs to figure out.
