What exactly do you want to hear? Have you read any of the MLC crap at the top of the page...yes I said crap...because sometimes it feels like such a cop-out. Like GOD I wish I could do this stuff and just go on a vacation from responsibility and not care about anyone but me!
BUT
Guess what man...
It is a mid-life crisis.
Are you suggesting that you would rather her NOT be attached to you? These little things she throws out...let me harken wayyyyyy back to my begining of all this...these are lifelines she is throwing out, these are lines to her past that she still wants, the small little rational part of her brain still wants what she had with you, maybe not the same, god forbid, but with you in her life.
While this causes much confusion in you, makes you second guess everything, makes you think YOU are crazy...guess what? Better to have these things than to not have them.
Your the "impossible husband" because by painting you like that she CAN do this.
What is she thinking? Man, I do not want to know, and neither do you, not right now.
Say: "cool, thanks, where is going to be? Love you too." (if you must) but let your actions show your love.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 03/05/0708:14 PM.
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