Jethro...It's ok, I just did not get what you were saying..interesting that maybe they do need the space, and as h said it is about him not me.
Dotto...great to hear you are doing for you, I know the loneliness...we will make it.
KAW...I have felt all along from what I read that my sitch is not the normal sep, I can't describe it...I have been thinking how I would approach h with some of those questions...I sure do not want him to feel pressured into talking, maybe that is why he does not come around, fearing I might bring it up...when he told our kids about the move he said we needed to get to know each other again, and if he came over and I let him spend the night, that it would not mean that everything was ok again, but that if he did not stay that things were bad...so when is he going to act on any of these things? Should I call him on the phone and ask if he wants to talk about things, no that doesn't sound right..should I appear on his doorstep...don't think so...I just don't know how to get him to open up if he doesn't come around, at a time when kids are not here..I'll keeep thinking it through rather that jump in and say something stupid. I did call him the other night to share a computer mess that I had at work..and he called me back at work today to see what the end result was...now he did not have to.I really think I have to get some answers out of him as to what he is feeling..he very well might be waiting for me to make the first move..I need to know what he is feeling.We are not progressing as a couple, but maybe we are as individuals and that is good. See ya Sue
