Hey OF- Getting around to finally reading some stuff in this forum I moved to. Yours is very intersting. I really like your attitude especially questioning if you were single would you M her or even pursue her. Does she even have your values.
You know, as much as I want my M back, I ask myself the same questions and after one year of this, why in heaven's name would I want her back? I see a completely different person and what I see I do not like.
But is my W that way b/c she is an alien or b/c of things I did? I ask that question to help me objectively assess things.
So, I just wanted to say you are doing fine. Your 'open mind' approach should serve you well. Remember, they quit on us, not the other way round. To make any new R work means both must work it. And the first place to work is on us; she must see her problems and work them if the R is to work.
