Wow Cat that is a great post! and it definately made me think of a few things that I hadn't before.
Especially about how my H may perceive things in my actions and I guess what he is going threw, it made alot of sense! And I am going to try and keep that in mind, in order to interact better with H!
My faith has taken a huge battering in the last few years, and would have to say that at this point don't feel very strongly about it.
Last year I went to the vatican and when we walked in the pope was giving mass, I found this very moving, and it made me cry, and thought great I haven't lost my faith after all, however again even more so now I wonder how if there is a God could he throw so much pain and hurt at one person, one family so much! My family has gone through so much in the last year, it just doesn't make sense to me! Not just talking my H and I but extended family too!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda