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how do you find it interesting that h left to have space?
Jeez...sorry. Lately I've not been communicating too well. I did the same thing on LL's thread today too. What I meant was, I find your thread interesting in that your H is exhibiting (and has acted on) some of the same things my W has been talking about for some time. In other words, it's interesting in how it relates to my sitch. Don't be mad...

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At first when he wanted out, I took it as "not wanting to be with me"
I know...I felt the same way after the first two bombs. But sometimes--and my thoughts are changing a little on this--I think that they really need space. I saw a statistic today that said about 80% of M'd couples at one time or another S for at least a month during their M. I just thought this interesting...

Sorry for any misunderstandings...

jethro