welcome to my thread, jethro...how do you find it interesting that h left to have space?? At first when he wanted out, I took it as"not wanting to be with me", then when he said it was him, needing to "find himself" I thought ok..lately because he does not contact me at all, I am back to "he really does not want to be with me, in our home". He does not go to his part time church job till all hours like he did when he was home..hmmm..likes to be alone at his own place.Am I wrong in thinking that?? I know there are many good things that have happened..I have not by any means given up..

KAW....what can I say!!!thanks

Sue