Quote: I am so envious of the threads I have read where after only a few weeks or months the spouses are calling...hugging..kissing...talking and I don't have any kind of response or ideas what h is doing or thinking.
I hear ya on that one sue, took my h being away and me finally "detaching" while he was gone 6+ months. but it can happen. PATIENCE is definately one of the lessons we learn through all this.