you sound a bit down. . you've got to stop asking yourself these questions, they are not yours to answer, it is for h to figure out. you will be ok no matter what happens and typically the sooner you accept that the more likely what will happen is what you want to happen.
so then sue....what are you doing for you? what new things are you doing that are just for you? any new projects? what are you doing with your time in your new tension free space?
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