Thank you. You gave me alot of good advice in my previous thread too. I can't believe how hard it is to detach myself from her. I've been co-dependent for so long. If she's "shut off" her emotions for me and "checked out" of the relationship, what is this "hope" that she's hanging onto? She said she was afraid when I told her we were through. I know what she's afraid of, leaving what she knows. Is that enough for me to try and keep her with me?