Tomorrow morning is my first court date to start H and my divorce. I am pretty nervous and sad that it has come to this.
Can you give me any pointers or advice about how I should act around my H? Should I wish him well, acknowledge his presence in the courthouse , ignore him?? It will basically be our 2 L's doing all the negociating while H and I sit in a room together. Uncomfortable , but my L says the room is large so if I don't want to speak to H I don't have to.
It is going to be a very sad day for me-- to H I think he is looking at it as the end of a chapter in his life and is looking forward to a new beginning with Ow. He believes his unhappiness was because he was married to me, we were a mistake.
Coming from a MLCer's perspective how do you think I should act? Do I show him my true feelings of disappointment and regrets or act strong and confident - looking forward to my new life without him??
