Het, everyone..how is it going?? It is cold here in Illinois. Dotto..hang in there with h being gone..he still has contact with you..that is a plus..they seem to need this space thing..and i feel angry sometimes that I would like my own too..he is good to me though..last night we all went to a new cafe for a sandwich..he is upbeat and laughs more then he has in a long time yet sometimes when I say something that he does not agree with or thinks is silly..he gives me that put out look of his. Dropped us off and told me cocktails were at 6 tonight..Does he really want me to go or does it just look good for him to be there with his w??I wish I knew..But i will try to enjoy myself..As far as the girlfriend thing..flirting I am not sure I know how to do that. Sue