That is what I meant...I wouldn't just go and tell him now...but I do think this is something that needs to be addressed if it appears they are on the road to recovery...a clean start can only be had after all is finally out and dealt with...I also would recommend this be done in the arena of counseling if possible... ....but I do think that the time has to be right for it to be discussed...and he does bare some responsibility by putting her in that position to be so vulnerable....
