Quote: I am so afraid that all this will be too comfortable for both of us and we won't even want to try to piece it back..why would we..if you can come and go, have friends..be alone, pay the bills, why bother trying to live together again.
sue, before you married, could you pay your own bills? have friends, be alone, come and go as you please?
if these things are sooooo wonderful and would keep you and h from peicing and eventually living together again why did the two of you do it the first time around??
sometimes what we think we want is not really what we want.
Quote: Come to think of it the one Sunday I did not seek him out, he came to me..so there are things if I just watch.
and didn't that feel much better than the times that you saught him out??
it takes time, give him his space, enjoy your own and have faith that things will work out for YOU.
