Ok...quick question...hubs A was with someone that does along the same kind of work as him but several hours away to an area he travels to often (is there right now, argh) - from what I know, they communicated by phone and email, not on a daily basis, but several times a week. Over an 8 month period, saw each other approximately 6 times (per him) mostly for group dinners, had sex once (again, per him) but made out a couple of times. His admission was and still is, it was what it was - a completely mind tryst that he was missing from me.
So when I found out (found a gift and card for her on 2/8) he told her the next day by phone (again, per him) that is was over that he was coming back to me blah blah blah. She is married but unhappily.
He did commit to telling me if he hears from her and said he would be surprised if he didn't. Welp, I ask from time to time (it's been 4 weeks) and says nope, nothing, notta. I tell him time and time again that it's hard for me to believe that you can carry on with someone for 8 months and then just nothing. No hi, howdy, how are ya, nothing.
The reason I'm asking is that I just asked again in a "by the way" kinda way. He said nope, nothing. I said (again) don't you find that weird? He said Nope. I said why are you acting like that? He said I don't want to talk about it - it's done.
So, what do you do? Just say "Welp honorable Sir, that's enough for me" and just move along???
